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Gwendolen

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2011-01-25 23-08-13

Has positive associations for me. But I'm not really in the "BDSM community." To me, "nice" is positive. And not at all at odds with being dominant.
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2011-01-26 11-26-48

and that's what this article was about How a man can be dominant in the bedroom and still be a good human being. He was not thrilled with the term "nice guy" and the fact he felt the author was condescending (sp?).
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  • therriault

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    2011-01-26 15-28-45

    Maybe it was the tone, then, and not the words... I dunno. I've seen that article before. Maybe it's just written at a lower level than where he is, but I didn't find it inappropriate for a general audience. How we respond to words is such a gut reaction, though. He's just had previous unpleasant associations with "nice."
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    dancey

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    2011-01-26 22-11-23

    yeah, his reading level is pretty high up there. I thought he would appreciate the simplicity of the writing... in the future, I'll send him dissertations written by sex experts. lawlz.. he's a kinky fuck like that. :P
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    2011-01-26 22-51-55

    side note as lame and cliched as it seems to be for most people: I fucking ♥ the word sexpert.
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    sytsma

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    2011-01-27 8-30-24-

    Here is the article:
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    claypool

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    2011-01-27 10-30-18

    Hahahaha. I had a feeling it might be that Yes, it's *very* pedantic and meant for guys who are sort of vacuous and very stubborn about their being raised right. ;)
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    Faizal

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    2011-01-27 11-36-04

    maybe I should have read it all the way through. I don't think he feels like an asshole when he gives me what I want.. I just thought it explained the pleasure/pain part in an easy to understand way. *sighs*
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    michaeline

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    2011-01-27 12-13-10

    You meant well! And honestly, I've never seen any other articles addressing the "nice guy" issue. Therefore, you're limited to what's out there. Or your own words. You're very articulate. Perhaps your own words would have been better. But--no sense worrying now that he's read it and such! Just reassure him that nice isn't a bad thing in your eyes, explain what you feel you want to express/explain, and move on! :)
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    sciara

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    2011-01-27 21-18-15

    I sent him an apology just now and promised different literature in the future. And thanks Ms.P.... I hate it when he makes me verbally submit though. It makes me blush and stutter. I am not nearly so articulate when talking about my sexual desires with him, unless it's in a matter of fact scientific sort of way where I can be somewhat detached from it. *sighs* This was a silly thread, I is sorry Kinkfo.
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  • emelina

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    2011-01-28 3-29-28-

    Hey, I understand. Sometimes my fella gets frustrated with me when I am preparing to express something I feel is important, because I'll sit there and almost comiy open and close my mouth while intermittently sighing and staring at him intently before I finally figure out the "right way" to say it. He'll be like, "What? What?!" and look all confused and annoyed. And then I'll finally spit it out as clearly and concisely as possible, heh! I certainly understand difficulty expressing oneself to one's fella, that's for sure! Anyway, I've seen worse threads. I'm sure KinkFo can get over this ;)
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    2011-02-15 23-32-21

    spending time in the dungeon would be written submission... not verbal.
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  • Sisely

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    2011-04-01 14-36-07

    uhhhh yeah. i'd say that "nice" is a good thing. I look for nice. I don't actively hunt out people that have "asshat" written across their lying cheating scumbag face.
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    2011-04-01 23-17-38

    that's how I feel.
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  • midura

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    2011-06-13 6-19-12-

    nice guy I usually define a "nice guy" as the who is so desperate for acceptance and approval that he'll give you anything you want and take whatever shit you give him. The "nice guy" is also usually fat or ugly, and potantially possessing of bad hygiene. A guy who is nice and respectful (and looks even moderately attractive) I will usually refer to as being a "totally decent guy" or a "good/great guy"
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    brockhouse

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    2011-09-08 9-19-11-

    So for you, nice and great don't mean the same thing. interesting.
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    2011-09-28 5-44-08-

    wow, so men who are thin and attractive and not smelly are... not nice?
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    2011-11-24 17-41-23

    no judgment meant to be implied just... an interesting pov.
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    muchow

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    2011-12-28 14-22-56

    I'll have you all know that my fella is lean and has a very nifty bone structure and smells much better than I do. Harumph. ;) Shall we hiss at the generalizations, v_r? Oh, let us hiss! *hiss!*
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    2012-09-20 4-47-33-

    oh, right. *hiss* as well. I practicing to be a sheeple. YAY!!! in all seriousness, i'm just astounded at such a different viewpoint.
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    longfield

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    2012-12-16 21-04-24

    But if it's justof us, and we're black, and we're hissing at generalizations--doesn't that negate the sheeple thing? I'd reckon we're more like maverick mountain goats that swallowed snakes. And after we're done hissing, we'll butt each other for rulership of the mountain. :)
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    2012-12-19 5-12-25-

    i'd lose and be relegated to a lower cliff with less nummy stuff to eat. I'd resort to chewing on my tail and bleed to death due to my own stupidity. In short, i'd be a terrible goat.
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  • Furrukh

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    Nah, i totally got caugt up in it trying to figure out if my fear of heights would transfer to my goat-self. Also, started wondering if goats have taste buds... maybe trash tastes really good though. I've never eaten any. Oh. Right. We're off this subject now aren't we?
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    2014-02-09 14-21-09

    I'm not saying they're not nice I'm saying that they're not the ones usually referred to as nice. Nice is a bland term, and it is very specific to only their attitude towards people. It's like saying a woman has a "great personality" which usually means she's a lot of fun to be around, but not all that great looking. In order for a guy to be a "great guy" he does have to be nice. But he also has to be intelligent and interesting, neither of which is required by "nice."
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    2014-06-15 21-02-58

    Pleasant is another word that means nice things but in general has a negative connotation, because it implies being good, but nothing spectacular.
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    see? that evil word again! LOL laughs hopes all is fine and dandy this evening rabbit
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    2015-09-25 6-31-06-

    i know lol. i feel like such a loser saying it now!!! I kid. I do feel like a slobbering, pathetic, girl-type describing him like that. He is also a brutally sadistic fucker who likes to edge me til i beg and then laugh in my face. An insane voyeur who loves to pass me off to my crazed girlfriends (that i brat so hard that when the Top me, i leave broken and bruised) and watch, laughing from the sidelines. He is a really great cup-of-tea maker Uhhhhh, and he is really handy with canes and fire. He can make me cry in agony and then make me cry with relief when it is over and he bundles me up and cuddles me. So yeah, he is nice. And other stuff.
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